Being a stay-at-home mom is a beautiful calling, but it can also feel overwhelming and chaotic without some kind of rhythm. You may have tried rigid schedules that fall apart by 9 a.m. we’ve all been there. But a life giving routine isn’t about strict timelines. It’s about creating flow in your day that nourishes both you and your family.
Here’s how to create a simple, soul-filling routine that actually works for your real life.
1. Start With Anchors, Not Hours
Instead of scheduling every hour, build your routine around natural “anchor points” like:
- Morning wake-up
- Mealtimes
- Nap/quiet time
- Evening wind-down
Think of these as your reset buttons throughout the day. Create small habits around these times to bring calm and structure.
2. Include Something Life-Giving for You
It’s easy to get lost in the to-dos. But you matter too, Mama. Even 10 minutes of something that fills your cup can shift the tone of your day:
- Morning prayer or journaling
- A hot cup of coffee outside
- Listening to worship music while folding laundry
This isn’t selfish, it’s how you stay grounded.
3. Make Time for Connection
You don’t have to plan Pinterest-worthy activities every day. Simple, intentional moments go a long way:
- Reading books together
- Five-minute dance party
- Snuggling during quiet time
Connection happens in the small, ordinary moments. Look for them.
4. Leave Room for Rest + Flexibility
Some days will go off the rails. That’s okay. Grace is part of the routine too.
Build in quiet spaces where you and your kids can breathe, free play, quiet time, or screen time if needed. Flexibility doesn’t ruin the day, it often saves it.
5. End the Day with Intention
Close out your day gently:
- Tidy up a bit together
- Reflect or pray over your day
- Prepare something small for tomorrow (like setting out clothes or jotting down a to-do)
These little endings create peace before a new beginning.
Mama, you don’t need a perfect routine, just one that supports your purpose and nurtures your heart. Start small. Keep it simple. And give yourself grace along the way.
You’re doing holy, beautiful work.. even in the mess. 💛
